Top Differences Between Sex with an Escort and Porn

Lots of people hire escorts for sexual (and nonsexual) services and some of them might have unrealistic expectations. Porn and sex with an escort are two sides of the same coin. This topic is very popular on various websites and forums, and there are lots of valid information, but also lots of misconceptions. Here, at Escort Rankings, we feel obligated to dive into this topic and point out the top differences between porn and sex with an escort.

There is no man or a woman who didn't watch some porn movie, or at least a short clip. It's kind of unavoidable because the porn industry is widespread and it's easily accessible to everyone. There's nothing wrong with watching porn, but don't mix it with real life, because it's not an exact representation of what you'll experience by having sex with an escort.

When it comes to sex, we all have some questions and curiosities, and that's perfectly normal. Some people prefer to learn from real-life experiences, like with their partner, or by hiring a professional escort, while others use porn as a primary educator. What's the difference? Usually when “porn students” try to implement what they learned by watching pornstars in action, well, let's say it doesn't end like in the movie.

There are big differences between sex with an escort and porn. It's important to behave accordingly when you're in the company of an escort and not to mix these two worlds. 

Expectations vs Reality

Whether you are looking for an escort or porn, the best place to search for them is on the internet, and with that, almost all similarities end. What you see in porn is not what you'll experience with an escort. You know that porn is scripted, and almost always you can assume what will happen next. While in real life, and with an escort, things flow naturally. There's no script to follow.

Porn is not a teacher you should learn from. Why is that? First, it will give you unreal expectations when it comes to sex. Unreal expectations will eventually lead to disappointment, also it can affect your future relationships and self-confidence. 

What you see in porn is not real because you see only the final edited version, and not what happened in between the cuts and scenes. Unlike real life, in porn, everything is perfect,  smooth, and best performed. Sex with an escort may not be perfect, but it's natural, and by it, a lot more intimate and fun.

Porn stars are paid to act and to have a great time on camera (even if they're not), it's their job. Porn is relevant to sex as Star Trek is relevant to space and physics. On the other hand, sex with an escort is something real. It's not an actual relationship, and there is no commitment, but the experience is real and it's much more worth it than porn fantasy.

Escorts Are Not Actors

Except for some elite escorts (who are actual pornstars), escorts are not actors. They have great social skills, and they can easily fit in any role for various occasions and events, but it doesn't make them actors. Many escorts offer services like roleplay, but still, their main job is escorting, not acting. Her job is not to look great on camera for viewers but to satisfy you.

As we said, porn is scripted, and its purpose is to entertain viewers. Pornstars care about how they visually perform and not if their partner is satisfied, while the escort's job is to entertain and connect with her client, and to satisfy his needs.

Sex With an Escort is More Than Porn

Sex with an escort is more than just a single act, more than mechanical movements, and more than acting like a porn star. It is a more complete experience, including emotions like closeness, desire, attraction, excitement and trust.

Experience with an escort can include kissing, cuddling, holding hands, and other things that increase physical intimacy. Sex with an escort is based on mutual respect, equality, and mutual consent. Porn often promotes quite the opposite. Mutual pleasure and intimacy aren't important. Instead, priority is looking and sounding sexy, and being attractive to viewers.

Escorts Don't Rush Into Sex

We all know porn movies are not famous because they have a great storyline. Strangers meet, and after a few words, they are already pounding at full speed. There is no connection or intimacy, and no foreplay. If this is your fantasy, probably you can find an escort who is willing to fulfill it. However, if you forget about the porn and let things happen naturally, it's more likely both of you will enjoy it, and your experience will be much better.

Usually, sex with an escort isn't spontaneous, and it doesn't go from 0 to 100 in a matter of minutes, like in porn. However, if you booked an escort for companionship or dinner date (or any other non-sexual service), spontaneous sex may happen if there is strong chemistry between you two. Again, it will only happen with the consent of both parties.

Escorts Have Boundaries

Just because you hired an escort for sexual services doesn't mean you can do anything you want. Escorts have boundaries, and the services they offer are clearly visible on their profiles. Your responsibility is to inform her loud and clear (when making a booking) about your wishes and preferences and to respect the agreement you two made.

In most porn movies, girls are treated like sex objects. However, it's part of the movie script and all porn actors are doing it with consent. If you let porn be your guide and treat her like you own her, your date will be cancelled immediately, and you'll lose your credibility for further bookings. 

Real Sex Can Be Awkward Sometimes

In porn, everything is perfect. Everyone knows perfectly what they are doing, and they are perfectly synchronized all the time. There are various weird positions and every one of them looks easy, and not a single mistake is made. At least it's what we see (or what they allow us to see). It would be correct to say that it's just a fantasy. We all know what real sex looks like, and we shouldn't let the “movie magic” affect our judgment.

Real sex can be weird or even awkward sometimes. Especially if you try new and uncommon things. If it happens to you while having a passionate night with an escort, don't worry, it's perfectly normal, and she won't make fun of you. Some things and positions require great physical shape. Professional escorts will avoid weird situations and positions, mostly to keep the flow and to avoid positions where one of you can be hurt.

That is why it's important to talk to your escort about what you like in bed and what you would like to experience. Whatever you decide on, if you have realistic expectations, you'll have a splendid time with your escort.

Escorts aren't Pornstars But They Can Fit in the Pornstar Role 

There are many types of escorts, and there are even more services you can choose from. Depending on what you need, you can pick a regular escort, VIP, elite, or fetish escort. Some elite escorts are actual pornstars, so it would be easy to experience PSE (if they agree on it). When it comes to escorts, it all comes down to the services they offer, mutual agreement, and mutual consent.

If you want a pornstar experience with an escort, first you need to find the one that matches your preferences. Maybe you won't find the perfect match, so be ready to compromise. Call her and be honest (and detailed) about your wishes and preferences. If she agrees, you'll have your porn fantasy fulfilled.

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