Things to Know When Paying for Sex

There can be many reasons why someone is hiring an escort for sex. Obviously, the main reason is sex, but is there more to it? Of course, there is. The layers underneath those three letters can be thick and thin, and it's what makes it an exciting and unique experience. Even though it's a pretty common thing these days, hiring an escort for sexual services can be intimidating, especially if you have never done it before. Lose the anxiety by getting to know the essentials.

Every experienced punter will tell you that hiring an escort is neither dangerous nor difficult, as long as you know what to do and how to do it properly. This leads us to the following question: What are the things you need to know when paying for sex? This article will give you some explanations and advice. After all, hiring an escort as a sex partner, and sharing all your secret fantasies with her is a very intimate thing, at least for the majority. Only genuine and professional escorts can meet your expectations, so choose wisely.

Hiring an escort for sex (or any other activities) is all about the experience. That's why you should know all the do's and don'ts before you get into it. First-timers often make the mistake of going into this without any preparation, they act cocky, or they are too shy and afraid to express themselves or ask questions. You have two options: be bold and learn the game, or go blind and wait to hit the wall. 

Don't Mix Apples and Oranges

Whatever you might think or have heard, escorts and prostitutes are two different worlds. If you ever hired a prostitute you know how it goes with them. You pay for sex, do your thing and that's it. No matter if it lasts for 15min or 45min, you pay for service, not the time. The minute you finish, that's it, you are considered served. She won't stay to cuddle or chit chat.

Experience with escorts is different. Their relationship with clients, the range and quality of services, is on another level compared to prostitutes. If you booked an escort for an hour, few hours, or a day, you'll get her attention and commitment through the whole time, from the first to the last minute. If you booked her for three hours, you can manage that time the way you like, and do what you want, as long as you both agree on it.

Know What You Want

Paying for sex is like paying for any other service. Before you search for an escort, you should have in mind what you want and what your preferences are. What kind of person are you looking for, someone with certain physical features and characteristics? The more honest you are to yourself, the better the choice you'll make.

Do you have a specific interest, like a fetish or a kink? Maybe you want a fresh experience and see what it's like with a transgender woman, or you fantasized about being with two bisexual temptresses? Maybe you want a mistress who knows how to wield a whip? The diversity of escorts is not only in their looks, character, age or ethnicity but also in the things they offer. You'll find everything from regular escorts and professional models to bed-busting pornstars.

Find Your Girl 

A very common question is how (or where) to find a genuine and professional escort? It's crucial to know the answer if you want to find what you're looking for. Do some research instead of rushing into the first ad you see. You'll find lots of escort directories and websites online, but as you might know, not all of them are the real deal. The good news is, there are a few easy steps to recognise the genuine ones.

Search for an escort directory or website that is updated, legitimate and still operating. Escort directories give you insight into an extensive database of escort agencies and independent escorts in or outside of your area. Whether you decide on agency escorts or independent ones, make sure to check and read all the information provided. Check the consistency of photos, services, read the biography and reviews, etc. 

Usually, photos are what catches your eye first, and often are the main reason you decide to click on a profile. Also, the photos can tell you if something is not right. Besides visually checking the photos, do a reverse image search. This will show you if the photos are stolen from social media or some website. If the photos are real, it's time for the next step.

One of the best and most reliable methods in finding legit escorts is to read the reviews. You'll find them on the profiles of independent escorts, on the escort agencies websites, and on review websites such as EscortRankings.cc. Wherever you are located, you can search for a review site by your location, read the reviews and check the rating of the escort you're interested in. For example, if you are in Toronto, search for Toronto escort reviews.

Every Detail Matters

Hiring an escort for sexual services will be an exceptional experience as long as you are honest about your preferences and expectations. If you are shy and silent about what you want, don't expect to get it. Escorts are not mind-readers, so don't expect them to know what you want and be clear about your preferences. Don't worry, anything you want and say is probably something they have already heard a bunch of times.

When you're buying a TV, you tell the salesman all the details you can think of such as size, brand, type, etc. The same goes for escorts, the more details you give them, the better. Be honest and open-minded. It's the only way to get what you want.

Safety First

Whether you have sex with your partner or an escort, you need to know whether it is safe for both of you. Sex is impossible without physical contact, that's why professional escorts do STD tests at least once a year (or more). For this reason, it's safer to search for an escort from a reputable and trusted agency, or if you prefer independent escorts, find the trusted one with excellent reviews and ratings.

Don't think that escorts don't care about their health and safety. You might not be sexually active as they are, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't do an STD test before jumping in bed with an escort. Yes, you were careful with your partners, but no matter how careful you were, you can never be 100% sure until you do a test. Responsibility must be present on both sides.

Avoid Legal Issues

Legally speaking, an escort is safe to be booked only if she is of legal age. Hiring or promoting an underaged person as an escort is illegal and punishable by the law. Reputable and genuine escort agencies won't hire an employee (escort) without screening, so if you run into an agency with underage escorts, don't do any business with them.

This is one of the many reasons why background checks are so important. Even if you doubt the escort is underaged, don't book her unless you checked, and it's 100% sure she is of legal age. If you can't confirm, skip and search for the one that you can verify and that matches your preferences. 

Professional Love

Whatever you do, don't fall in love with an escort. She might look like the girl of your dreams (because she invests in her appearance) and she will treat you in the best possible way, but it doesn't mean she wants to be your girlfriend. Keep in mind that it is her job, and keep it professional by respecting her rules and boundaries. When your booked time ends, you each go back to your lives with no commitment and obligation to each other. You can show your affection and appreciation by becoming a regular client, you can buy her a gift, or give a bigger tip.

Calling or texting her should be reserved for booking only. Doing it for other reasons is rude and it's disturbing her privacy and peace. Things like that will lead to rejecting you as her client, blocking your calls, and you'll end up with a bad reputation. Escorts are connected and they talk to each other, and every unwanted client that behaves improperly will be rejected from other escorts too. It's why it is important to be a gentleman and to keep your good name and reputation on a high level.