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List of Kinks and Fetishes You Should Know About

In recent years, kinks and fetishes are losing the taboo-feel, and are becoming more accepted by society. There are more and more people who want to explore more flavours of sex than just vanilla, and as an escort, we're sure you've encountered clients with various kinks and fetishes so far.

In recent years, kinks and fetishes are losing the taboo-feel, and are becoming more accepted by society. There are more and more people who want to explore more flavours of sex than just vanilla, and as an escort, we're sure you've encountered clients with various kinks and fetishes so far. You might even have a few kinks and fetishes yourself.

Considering that you can have kink or fetish for anything, it is impossible to make a “complete list of kinks and fetishes”. That's why we at Escort Rankings singled out some that we thought you should know about. But before we jump to the list of kinks and fetishes, let's break down what having a kink or fetish means.


What Is Kink?

Kink is something that goes above and beyond conventional (vanilla) sex. In other words, it's unconventional sexual behaviour or taste. A kink brings extra pleasure and additional erotic energy to the sexual experience through the excitement of leaving mainstream boundaries. What is kinky is a subjective matter. For example, your friend might think that sex toys or handcuffs are kinky, but your other friend might consider it vanilla. Or it could mean that trying a butt plug, feeling a leather whip on your body (or booty), role-playing, or using handcuffs turns you on. Anything outside of vanilla (mainstream) sexual activities is considered a kink.

What Is a Fetish?

Technically, a fetish is an attraction to non-sexual body parts (e.g., foot fetish), attraction to an inanimate object, or behaviour. In a way, fetish can be considered as some type of kink. But unlike kink, a fetish is when sexual pleasure or arousal can be achieved only when a certain object of attraction is present. Fetish can also be an act, for example, exhibitionism, or having sex in public.

Role Play

This is one of the most common kinks. Lots of people are turned on by some unique sex scenarios and characters. Roleplay involves taking on characters, putting on an outfit, and constructing scenes outside of your daily life.

For example, patient and doctor (or sexy nurse), student and professor, rich housewife and pool boy (or plumber), boss and secretary, etc. To enjoy a roleplay, it's not necessary to have an outfit. You can use dirty talk and imagination to create scenes. Roleplay is more about acting and behaviour than an extensive wardrobe. 

For an exceptional experience, it's best to hire an experienced escort who offers roleplay services. Roleplay is about acting and skill and escorts who specialize in this type of service are great at both. Dirty talk, sweet talk, you can choose what you like. If you are new to this, use an experienced escort to learn the game. After that, you can teach your partner, and make your own home play.

Uniform

A uniform fetish is not the same as role-playing. Many men love women in uniform and reverse, but unlike role play, this doesn't have to include imagined scenarios and characters. Powerful and authority figures are most popular (firefighter, police and military uniforms), or vice versa (waitress, schoolgirl, cook, etc.). Even strippers use uniforms and it is most popular at private and bachelor parties. You're in luck if your job requires a uniform. If not, you can always visit a costume shop and buy one. 

Age Play

Age play is a form of role-playing. One or both partners pretend to be younger or older than their own age. You might have already experienced ultra-light age play. Calling your partner “baby” or “daddy” in bed is considered light age play.

One of the more “extreme” examples of age play is when one partner is turned on by acting like a baby and wearing a diaper. If you're turned on by age play and want to try it with your partner, it's always best to start slow. Use words like daddy or baby, and build gradually your age play until you reach the desired level. Remember, your partner's consent is a must.

Bondage

Bondage is a sex act, and it's just one slice of the BDSM pie (an acronym for “bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism”). Simply put, bondage is a type of restraint. Some people love the feel of restraint and submission and enjoy being tied up, while others enjoy being dominant (tying up their partner).

However, some people enjoy both, and they are referred to as a switch. For bondage, you'll need some kinky sex toys like handcuffs, rope, straps, sex benches, shackle mounts, or you can use a tie, belt, t-shirt and other clothes.

Foot Fetish

One of the most common and most popular fetishes is foot fetish. As its name suggests, people with a foot fetish are turned on by feet (seeing them, thinking about them, touching them) and potentially can get off on anything feet-related.

Engaging in foot worship is very common for people with foot fetishes. They treat their partners' feet like a relic (caressing, massaging and kissing them). Humiliation is often part of a foot fetish. Meaning they want their partner's feet in their mouth and face, or to be walked over by their partner.

There are other activities like pedicures and feet (or shoes) smelling. Having a partner with a foot fetish means lots of foot massages, so even if you don't have this fetish, you'll enjoy it. 

Search for escorts who offer foot fetish services and read their reviews, you'll be surprised how popular it is among clients.

Nylon Fetish

Tights or nylon fetish usually accompany a foot fetish. Nylon fetish is when one enjoys the feel and the look of legs and feet wrapped in nylon stockings. Sometimes it involves the enjoyment of the smell of nylons or the feeling of having them in their mouth. Note: using nylons as a blindfold or for bondage is different than having a nylon fetish. 

Golden Showers

This kink has a lot of names: golden showers, watersports, pee play, and urophilia. People who like golden showers can give or receive them (someone showers you with their pee or vice versa). People with this kink find golden shower (watersports) very arousing. If you are new to this or want to try it, it's best to do it in the bathtub or a shower (for a start). 

Whip

“Whip” is used as a common term for all play tools with an impact. It can be various types of whips or paddles. In BDSM, it refers to thuddy (paddle) or stingy (whip) sensation. Single-tail whip is the most advanced on the market. The snake's looks and cracking noise are its main characteristic. It can create serious injuries, so it's only for professional and experienced dominatrices, and even they use it only for intimidation.

If you enjoy being submissive, and you enjoy the feeling of a leather whip on your skin, or you enjoy (being dominant) spanking or whipping your partner, it's best to start with a beginner-friendly option. There are lots of men enjoying this fetish. If you are one of them, the good news is, lots of escorts can provide you with this satisfaction.

Note that for any action, you and your partner must be on the same page, and consent is a must.

Pregnancy Fetish

As the name implies, a pregnancy fetish is when you are sexually attracted to a pregnant woman. Some people only find out they have this fetish when their partner is pregnant, while others are attracted to pregnant bellies, even if they have never seen the women before.

As mentioned before, a fetish is an attraction to a non-sexual (non-genital) body part or an object. In this case, it is the round belly of a pregnant woman. It's the same attraction for them as breasts or booty are for others. You might be surprised, but you can find escorts who can give you this pleasure.

Use Safe Words

Some fantasies might include restrains or resistance. In a sex fantasy world, “no” doesn't always mean “no” (or “stop”). Before you get kinky, it's best to use a safe word you both agree on. You can use some default phrases like “green light” or “green” (keep going) and “red light” or “red” (stop).

Escorts are experienced so they know all about safe words and will tell you all about it before you engage in any action. However, it's important to know this if you're trying something new at home with your partner. If you don't know the basics, your kink or fetish experience can go south.

Explore Kinks and Fetishes Safely

Consent and safety are two of the most important things when exploring kinks and fetishes.

Talk to your partner, and if you don't have one, find the partner you can trust, and do your research. Don't rush into it, learn the basics first (for example, learn how to tie a knot properly). Don't forget about the acronym RACK, “risk-aware consensual kink”. The kink community uses this term in order for all parties to be safe and comfortable.

If you want an experienced partner for your kink or fetish, search the Escort Ranking galleries and find the escort that matches your preferences. Read the reviews on our site to find out all the details about your escort and her clients' experiences.

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