How to Spot Red Flags On Your First Date with a Client?

The first date is always the deciding date for escorts. It helps them understand their clients better and decide whether it's worth going out with them again or not.

However, it is not that easy to access a person's character during the first meeting. That's because your client will portray the best behaviour on the first date to impress you, which makes it even harder to understand his or her true nature. 

Therefore, escorts need to spot small red flags throughout the date to make sure that the client isn't clingy or dangerous in any way. We have presented some tricks below to help you better judge your client on the first date:

The Client is Late for the Date

If the client is late for the date, this is the first red flag. Now, it is possible that your client got stuck in the meeting or traffic, which can happen to anyone. However, the problem is when they don't inform you in advance. 

Suppose you are waiting for your client in the hotel lobby for 30 minutes and he comes totally unfazed by the fact that he is 30 minutes late. Worst of all, he won't even apologize for coming late. 

This entire scenario has lots of red flags. It shows how less your client cares for your time. The client might be paying you for your time but he can't keep you waiting unnecessarily. It's simply rude and unprofessional. 

He Asks Too Many Personal Questions 

It is an unspoken rule that an escort's personal life is off the table. But some new clients might don't know that fact and can ask some personal questions on the date, which is alright. You can tell your clients that you prefer to talk about them rather than your personal life. 

Mostly, clients will understand your subtle way of saying, "don't ask personal questions," and they will obey your wish. But if a client seems persistent in asking personal questions completely ignoring what you said, this is a red flag.

In this case, you should softly divert clients from your personal life-related questions and never share your home address or other personal details with anyone. That's because you don't know the client enough yet; who knows, he might turn out to be a stalker and put you in some kind of danger. 

He Already Makes Plans for the Next Date

You are still on the first date, and the client starts making plans for the second date or going on a weekend trip with you. This shows that your client is a bit clingy and lonely, which is never good for you. It can emotionally drain you so you should think well before deciding to see that client again. 

He Behaves In a Controlling Way

A client might have paid you to go on a date with him, but this doesn't give him the right to control you. They can't order you to do something unless you have agreed to play a naughty mistress role or entertain any other fetish during the date. 

Here are a few things that can tell you whether your client is controlling or not:

• Asking you to dress up in a particular manner for the date;
• Criticizing your makeup, hairstyle, or even the way you talk and eat;
• They order food for you on a date instead of letting you pick a dish;
• Never ask your opinion on anything, etc. 

The controlling behaviour might look hot in the bedroom, but when your client tries to control every aspect of your date, it will impact your self-esteem. Thus, it is better to distance yourself from the control freak clients after the first date. 

He Can't Stop Talking About Himself 

The whole purpose of taking an escort on a date is to take your mind off your life and relax for some time in the company of a gorgeous woman. But if your client talks non-stop about himself, how lonely he is, or how miserable his life is, this could be a red flag and a sign to stop seeing this client. 

Escorts are good listeners and trained to make clients happy. But the first date is about getting to know each other, not talking about deep stuff. Clients can discuss their personal life with escorts, but only when they both feel comfortable with one another. 

All in all, if your client has turned your first date into a therapy session, think twice before accepting a second date with him because it clearly shows that the client comes with some emotional baggage, which you have to deal with.    

He Drinks a Lot During the Date

It is alright when your client drinks one or two glasses of wine to calm his nerves during the date. But when he keeps on ordering alcoholic drinks throughout the evening, this is your red flag. 

Drinking alcohol directly impacts the social behaviour of a person, such as increased aggression, self-disclosure, and so on. Your client might say or do something under the alcohol's influence that might hurt you physically or mentally. 

You should also observe how your client drinks. For example, whether he gulps a full glass of scotch in one shot or takes small sips and slowly savours his drink. This will show you how heavy a drinker your client is. 

He Disrespects You 

Your client is paying for your elite services. But this doesn't give them the right to insult you in any way. They can't disrespect you or your profession in any context. 

If you find some comments or behaviour during the date offensive, there's your red flag. Also, if a client requests services that you don't offer, you should not worry about your Calgary escort reviews and instead, say no to the client. 

All in all, if the client doesn't treat you with respect, it shows his manners and character. So, beware of such clients. 

He Rudely Addresses Other People 

You should not only consider how clients behave with you on the first date. You should also observe how he treats other people, especially the waiting staff. 

To test your date's behaviour, pay attention to the following things:

• How does he call waiters to take your order? 
• Does he show compassion and respect towards elders?
• How much does he tip the waiter?
• Does he frown upon handicapped people?

The way a person behaves with elders, serving staff, and handicapped people, says a lot about his personality. You will get a fair idea about your client's character on the first date by observing how he or she interacts with other people. 

He Gets Jealous

If a controlling client is bad for you, a jealous client is worse. Jealous clients can get possessive easily, which isn't healthy for you. Especially if you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend, a client's possessiveness can ruin your personal relationship too. 

To test whether your client is a jealous person on the first date, look for the following red flags:

• The client gets annoyed when you talk to a waiter or other people during the date. 
• Clients stress knowing about your personal relationship. 
• The client suggests you stop seeing other clients and exclusively date him. 

He Doesn't Care About Your Safety 

Usually, escorts meet clients in a neutral location for the first time, like hotels, restaurants, or pubs. Also, escorts avoid meeting clients at their homes, especially new clients. 

If a client picks a shady location for a date or requests you to meet him late in the night, this might be a red flag. If you are an agency escort, your agent will run a complete background check on your clients. But if you are an independent escort, you have to be extra careful and think of your own safety. 

In this situation, your gut feeling can also help you to pick an unsafe vibe from your clients. 

Just Be Caution and Have Fun!

The best mantra for escorts is to be cautious and have fun. Escorts should keep their eyes and ears open while on a first date with a client. Observe small things and his general behaviour. Once you take all the mental notes about your first date with the client, analyze all the aspects carefully and decide whether to see the client again or not. 

As much as having a good client base is important for escorts, you should not compromise with your comfort level. If you receive a positive vibe from your clients, only then go on a second date with them. Otherwise, your top-rated profile on Escort Rankings will help you find many great clients.