12 Safety Tips for Overnight Dates

Overnight dates are one of the highly demanded escort services. Clients often book escorts for a complete girlfriend experience where they first take them out on a date and then spend a night with them.

For escorts, overnight dates are also a good way to make money by offering complete services to their clients. However, there's always some risk involved, especially if you are going out with a new client. 

Usually, outcall escorts' safety is handled by their agency, but if you aren't an agency escort, you have to consider your safety on your own. It might be challenging for escorts to stay safe on overnight dates without offending their clients, but it is possible if you follow the right safety tips. 

In this post, you will find all the important safety tips that can help you offer the best overnight services to your clients. 

Safety Tip #1. Share your date details with someone 

The first safety tip for escorts is sharing your date details with someone you can fully trust. In the case of agency escorts, the agency keeps a full record of clients, date locations, and other details. Since independent escorts don't have agents and handle everything on their own, they should share date details with their friends, family members, or other acquaintances. 

Before going on a date, you should always share your client's name, the location where he is taking you on the date, the duration for which a client has booked you, or any other relevant information. This way, you always have someone on back up if things go downhill on your date. 

Safety Tip #2. Ask for date location in advance 

Escorts, you should always ask clients to share information about where they are taking you on a date in advance. This information will help you stay safe and dress up according to the event. 

For example, if your client is taking you to a gala event for a date and then, later on, to his hotel room, you should ask for both locations' addresses. Then, using the date location information, you can search online whether the place is safe or not.  

Additionally, if your client stays in a hotel, you can call reception to know more about the hotel. If possible, you should also request clients to share hotel room numbers for extra safety. 

Safety Tip #3. Get to know your client better 

Do you want to receive the best Vancouver escort reviews from your clients while staying safe? Then, you should get to know your client a little better before going on an overnight date with him. 

You can have a phone call with your client to know more details about the date, his preferences, and expectations. However, don't share your personal phone number with a client. Instead, get a new prepaid number to interact with your clients so that your identity remains anonymous. 

You can also leverage technology to know your client better. For example, you can chat with your clients using secure apps where your private data is fully encrypted. Additionally, these apps can allow you to video call your clients to see them face-to-face. 

Safety Tip #4. Avoid carpooling 

This is vital. Always take a cab or use your own ride to reach your date location. Plus, if your date is making you uncomfortable and you wish to cut your date short, you can easily get out of the place.

Safety Tip #5. Share your real-time location 

Technology has made it quite easy to stay safe during overnight dates. There are many tools available that allow you to share your real-time location with your friends or family, like Facebook, WhatsApp, Google Maps, etc. 

So, if your client has a sudden change of plan or is taking you to different locations throughout the night, this feature will be very helpful. You just have to press a button on your phone, and your trusted people will know where you are in real-time. It's like having an extra safety net during the date. 

Safety Tip #6. Keep your phone's battery fully charged 

You can share your real-time location or call for rescue only if your phone's battery is charged during the date. Therefore, while getting ready for your special overnight date with the client, also ensure to charge your phone. For additional safety, you can keep a power bank in your clutch to charge your mobile phone anywhere. 

Safety Tip #7. Clarify the terms of your services 

On your escort profile or your website, all the information about your services is already listed. But it is still a good practice to communicate the details of your overnight date services with clients before going on a date, for instance:

• Mention all types of intimate services that you are willing to offer your clients, like oral, vagina, anal, or other sexual services. 
• Clearly state your charges and the payment mode that you prefer. 
• Don't clarify the terms of services on a call; discuss them on chat or email. 

Safety Tip #8. Be extra cautious during house dates

If your client has invited you to spend the night at his place after the date, you should be extra cautious. First, you should share the client's house address with a friend and then request to follow the client on your own ride to his home. 

Before stepping into your client's home, reach the place 10 minutes early and check the surrounding area. If you found two or more vehicles parked in front of your client's home, it is possible that more than one person is inside. If you didn't agree to this, you can leave.

Preferably, you should go on an overnight date to a neutral location such as a hotel. It is good to spend the night in a hotel with your clients for safety purposes. Many clients will suggest going to their homes but perhaps you could try suggesting going to a nice hotel instead.

Safety Tip #9. Don't invite clients over to your place

If visiting a client's place is risky, inviting a client to your place is also risky. Therefore, you shouldn't invite your clients to your place in any case. Instead, you should meet your client at the location you agreed on and come back from the date on your own. Even if you offer the incall escort services, you shouldn't invite clients to your place if you aren't familiar with them.

Safety Tip #10. Research your client

A good thing for agency escorts is that they don't have to worry about their clients' reputation and behaviour. As the agencies have numerous resources at their disposal, they can fully evaluate clients before connecting them with escorts. But independent escorts need to do the work themselves. 

You can leverage social media and other online tools to research your clients. Before going on a date, you should check out his social media accounts to find out personal details about them.

Safety Tip #11. Go easy on alcohol 

It is tempting to have a few drinks on a date, but you should restrict your alcohol intake to a glass of wine or beer. Alcohol intoxication can make you lazy and sleepy, which is a disastrous recipe on an overnight date with a client. 

Alcohol doesn't only jeopardize your safety but also affects your libido, which will impact your performance on the date. In short, if you want to receive good reviews and ratings on your online escort profile, drink moderately or stay away from alcohol. 

Safety Tip #12. Don't reveal too much personal information 

It is a great date practice to hold a communication session with your clients and get to know them better before taking your date further. But you should focus more on getting to know your clients and share minimal personal information about you. For example, never reveal your home address, phone number, or other personal details to clients. 

Whether it's an overnight date or a weekend trip with a client, you need to be cautious about going out with your new clients. Always run proper research, know your clients and follow all other safety tips before going out with them. For more escort safety tips, you can always check out our Escort Rankings blog and safely grow your escorting career.