11 Mistakes You Can Make While Messaging a Client

The moment you step into the escort industry - you are no longer a service provider. Instead, you will be an entrepreneur who markets her skills to attract new clients and earn her livelihood.

You have to take care of different aspects of a business to build a successful escorting career - creating a stunning online profile, investing in sexy lingerie, selecting a peaceful location for incalls, establishing a clear line of communication with clients, and so much more. 

Among all the escort duties, messaging or communicating with your clients is a very important job for you. Whether it is a new potential client or your old client messaging you to book your elite services, it is important to follow proper etiquette to communicate with your clients. 

Communication is the backbone of your escort empire whether you're a Calgary escort and want to boost your Calgary escort reviews or a Vancouver escort, or anywhere else in the world. The rules are the same. Therefore, while messaging your clients on mobile or online, you should maintain certain professionalism and a flirty tone to excite your clients through simple words. 

This guide will list down all the possible mistakes that you can make while texting your clients. So, read carefully and never repeat these mistakes. 

Mistake 1. Not Getting a Separate Cell Phone for Clients 

The first thing you should do before working as an escort is getting a separate mobile phone connection for clients. This will help to keep your personal and professional life separate. Additionally, whenever your professional phone pings with a text message, you will know it is something related to work, and you should answer it asap. 

While selecting your cell phone provider company to ensure to check its coverage in the city. Because it will look rude and unprofessional when you have to keep your clients waiting in the middle of texting due to poor network connection. 

Mistake 2. Messaging in Rush

If your client messages you while shopping in the mall or is stuck in the traffic, don't rush to reply. In haste, you might say something that you regret later, or worst, auto-correct spins the meaning of your messages. 

Therefore, you should read the client's text message carefully and calmly draft a reply back. Read your message twice before sending it to ensure there's no typo or any other problem with the message. 

Mistake 3. Don't Keep Your Clients Waiting

You should not text your clients in a rush, but it doesn't mean you should take days to revert back. Swift communication is very important for your career. 

Thus, keep your booking diary stored on your phone, so you can quickly reply to clients with your availability. 

Keep a few minutes spare for attending clients' calls and replying to their messages in your daily schedule. If possible, mention your call and text message timings on your escort profile. This way, you can have a personal life without worrying about messaging or calling your clients. 

Mistake 4. Too Much Friendly Tone

While messaging your clients, you have to pay special attention to your tone. You can't talk too much loosely with your clients, nor can you be too professional and rigid. 

You need to sound professional and flirty while texting your clients. Your texts should be short and exciting that can give a hard-on to your clients. 

The best strategy here is to use the messaging tone based on the service selected by the client. For example, if a client has booked your role-playing services, use messages to set the mood. You can send flirtatious messages based on the role a client has selected and fuel up his excitement with a little wordplay. 

Mistake 5. Sharing Personal Information 

Make it your motto - never share personal details with clients. Instead, keep the conversation focused on clients and their needs. 

You should use messaging as an opportunity to know more about clients. Especially if the client is new, frequent messaging will help you understand whether the client is a genuine person or another weirdo. 

If a client has hired you to attend a gala event with him, you should ask for the details about the event on the text. This way, you can pick the right outfit, accessories, and makeup suiting the occasion. 

In short, keep the conversation centred on clients, and if any person's question comes up, tactfully dodge it without offending clients. 

Mistake 6. Message Clients During Decent Hours

You should follow the same rule if you want clients to respect your schedule and message or call you during appropriate hours. For example, never revert back to clients' messages during odd hours like the middle of the night. 

Usually, it is a good idea to ask your regular clients about their schedules. Then, for new clients, reach out to them during standard hours, like in the evening when people are mostly free. 

Mistake 7. Transparent Communication 

Keep communication flow transparent between you and your clients. Usually, clients are clear about their expectations and needs from escorts. Thus, you should bluntly ask clients what they expect from the meeting. 

Open communication will eliminate all surprise elements, and you can visit clients fully prepared. For example, if a client is taking you on a dinner date and after that, he wishes you to accompany him to a hotel room for a rough tumble in the sheets. Then, knowing this beforehand will help you get ready accordingly. 

Similarly, you should clarify your service terms and charges to clients via message. Make sure to mention what services you offer and for how much. This information is already mentioned on your online escort profile on the Escort Rankings website, along with your Vancouver escort reviews. However, it is still a smart idea to reconfirm everything. 

Mistake 8. Sharing Your Nudes With Clients 

Often clients request some sexy shots via text messages. Now, there's no harm in sharing your photos with clients as they have already seen them on your profile. But don't share too many revealing photos with your clients, like a photo of your genitals or having sex. 

Images shared through messages can be easily edited and misused. Secondly, you will kill all the excitement by sharing your nude shots with clients before the physical meeting. 

So, click some sexy and less revealing images of yourself to share with clients. If possible, hide or blur your face in the images to protect your identity and increase clients' anticipation. 

Mistake 9. Being Rude to Clients 

No matter how much a client annoys you - never send rude text messages to them. First of all, it is unprofessional to be rude to your clients. Secondly, clients can take a screenshot of your rude message and twist it to write a negative review on your profile. 

Therefore, choose your words very carefully while messaging your clients. Even if clients use rude or crude words over messages, don't stoop low to his level and ruin your reputation. 

First, politely ask the client to watch their language. But if they don't stop, simply block their number without messaging anything bad in return that can be used against you. 

Mistake 10. Not Being Empathetic 

One thing that sets escorts apart from sex workers is that they only offer physical satisfaction to their clients. In fact, escorts provide physical, intellectual, and emotional satisfaction to their clients. 

People often come to escorts to talk and share their problems. Therefore, you have to show empathy to your clients when they are sharing their problems with you. 

Don't sympathize with your clients because nobody likes to be pitted. In fact, use your witty humour and compassionate words to make your clients' feel good. 

It is part of an escort's job to know how to emotionally support clients and instill sexual desires in them. If your clients feel hesitant to discuss their sexual preferences and problems with you, use your charm to create a comfortable environment for them to come out of their shells and freely talk to you. 

Mistake 11. Using Lots of Emojis and Texting Shortcuts

Don't send emojis and texting shortcuts like LOL, ROFL, or OMG after every message to your clients. These elements will make your message look kiddish and non-sexy. 

However, using flirty emojis sometimes is alright like heart ❤️, peach booty 🍑, devil smiley face 😈, eyes 👀, hug 🤗, wink 😉 and others. But don't go overboard with emojis while messaging clients, as you have to maintain a professional relationship with them. 

Plus, if your clients are old, they might don't understand the meaning of emojis and can misunderstand your messages. Therefore, use fewer and common emojis and texting language with your clients. 

Always Have Proper Communication With Your Clients!

Whether you are meeting a client for the first time or the hundredth time, always have proper communication via messages to understand them and set the right mood. Through your messages, you can excite, tease and flirt with your clients before even meeting them. 

Additionally, messages help you know clients' likes and dislikes, which can further help to provide better services. All in all, messaging is a great opportunity for escorts to impress their clients. Just avoid all the above-mentioned messaging mistakes, and you will be able to establish a smooth communication line with your clients. 

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