6 Signs That You Need to Break It Off with a Client

Breaking up with people is the hardest thing to do. Starting off as an escort, you wouldn't probably know how challenging it is to get rid of clients that aren't worth your time. Initially, you'll be more inclined to offer escort services to every John that comes your way in order to gain revenue and build genuine testimonials that speak for yourself.

But, we're here to tell you that not every client is worth your effort and time. Most of the time, you get clients approaching you for services and all you want is to refuse them straight up. But even after performing this due diligence, you might end up dealing with unsavoury peeps every once in a while. 

At some point in life, one has to face this inevitable truth and break off a professional relationship that isn't working out. The scariest part is when you realize that the world is smaller than you think and that people are interconnected. In case your client doesn't take it well, they might try to retaliate by writing bad reviews. 

Obviously, refusing clients is easier said than done, especially when you're working as an escort. It might affect your reputation and your online reviews. Breaking off with clients efficiently requires some skills and also knowing when is the right time to do so. 

Here are some common telltale red flags that'll help you determine when you should break it off with a client. Read on how to avoid getting in similar circumstances in future. 

When You're Over-Accommodating Your Clients

Part of your escorting job requires you to stick to a set of rules & policies that work the best for your success. Some clients won't value those rules and policies- they want things done their way, within their budget, and on their time. Don't let them exploit you in any way. 

Offering escort services doesn't mean you'll bend yourself in any way just to please the client. Make them follow your standard rules and procedures without making exceptions for anyone. They have to respect your boundaries too.

For instance, make sure to collect your cash payment before the beginning of the session -the rules are the rules so you shouldn't make an exception here. Also, if you accept limited slots in a week and someone requires an urgent outcall booking, they'll have to wait unless someone cancels their booking. Don't go out of your way to accommodate their schedule at the cost of losing other clients.

Beware of Johns who always seem to have a special request or those who put undue pressure on you to fulfil their needs. Also, walk your existing and potential clients through your policies and the way you work- state the non-negotiables and be consistent with them. 

You're Not Earning What You're Worth

It's quite necessary to push away those clients that aren't worth your time. You need to audit your visitors from time to time. Consider the time you've spent on pleasing vs how much they're paying you. Is it all justified? You'll probably discover that one or two of your clients aren't paying you well for your services. 

To make sure this doesn't happen, always charge for each service you provide and don't let the client make you think you owe them something. No services are implied and each comes with a set rate. If you're new to the escort world, we'll suggest reading up on how much you should be charging for your services before you come up with a price list. 

Come up with packages in accordance with the client's budget, let's say Elite Escort Experience, Budget Escort Experience or simply a quickie. This way you'll be saving more time that less-lucrative clients were consuming earlier. You can also offer a certain percentage of discounts to your returning clients. 

When Feelings Get in the Way

Sometimes, when two people are hooking up frequently, one of them starts developing feelings. It's not uncommon for a client to fall for the escort and expect a relationship. However, if you don't feel the same way and don't want anything to do with the client other than providing them escort services, you should stop meeting them.

And the other way around. If you start falling for your client and find yourself fantasizing about a relationship with him, but he isn't on the same page or worse, he's married, you don't need that trouble. You should break it off instead.

You're Being Treated Unfairly 

There's never an exception for bad behaviour. If any John has anger issues and gets aggressive, it's time to walk out of the session asap. You don't have to tolerate such nuisance and it isn't a part of your job. Life is too short to work for such short-tempered meanies. It doesn't matter how well you're being paid- it's a matter of your self-respect. 

An escort should be respected as much as any other individual on this planet. The fear of negative word-of-mouth reflecting on your Calgary Escort Reviews shouldn't come in between and it's your right to push away such meanies. Such people have no control over themselves and the situation can escalate anytime. The best thing is to cut your losses and refund those clients according to the terms mentioned in your contract.

The ideal way to go about it would be setting up a get-to-know-you phone call or zoom meeting with your prospective clients. This screening is important for your safety and you need to observe their behaviour during the meeting before you proceed with their booking. But even then, a client might behave great on the call but start pushing you or being aggressive on your date. In that case, leave right away and do not meet with this client ever again.

When Your Client is Comparing You With Others

The worst Johns are the ones that will tell you that your fellow escort is doing a better job than you and that too at a cheap price. No escort wants to be compared in that way and made to feel inadequate. Some clients are never satisfied even if you have to jump through fire hoops to satisfy their needs and win them over completely. Break it off with them.

When Your Clients Have Unrealistic Expectations

Some Johns might have ridiculously high expectations of you just because you're an escort. There will always be some people who either expect a lot of stuff in exchange for peanuts or expect you to get into some action that's not listed in your services list. It could be as simple as dressing up for a gala event. However, if it's not mentioned at the time of booking, they can't assume you'd be OK with it.

When clients spend money, some of them might assume that you'll do anything they ask just because they're paying you. Before they set up high expectations, have a nice conversation with them detailing the realistic escort services they'll be getting in their budget. If they don't like your terms, don't meet with them.

No matter how long you've been working as an escort, you won't be able to predict how clients will turn out. If you're dealing with any of these above-described Johns, dump them right away because in the end, they're not worth your time and effort.