Is It a Good Idea to Date a Client?

Do you feel connected with your client on an emotional level? Do you often wait for a certain client's message? Are you falling for your client?

If yes, yes, and yes, there's nothing to worry about, escorts. You can definitely have a romantic relationship with your client. In fact, many escorts prefer to have a relationship with their clients or co-workers as they better understand their line of work.

There's no harm in having a relationship with your client, but if you are asking whether it is a good idea or not, it depends upon your circumstances. If your clients equally reciprocate your feelings, you can surely explore your relationship with your client further. 

But, unfortunately, if your client doesn't have the same feelings for you or he is married, it is a bad idea to date your client so you should probably stop seeing them. 

Many factors contribute to your decision to date a client. For your convenience, let's talk about all the factors that the top Calgary escort reviews receiving escorts should consider before dating a client. 

Make Sure You Actually Like Your Client

Escorts, when you are sexually involved with a person, especially in a girlfriend experience type of service, it is common to feel attracted to that person. But, it doesn't mean you are falling for the person. 

Therefore, before taking action on your feelings, ensure that you are really falling for your client. This way, you can save yourself from losing a client and stepping into a relationship that isn't good for you. Here are a few signs that can help you determine whether you are falling for your client:

• You will be extra excited to meet that client. 
• You pay special attention to your looks before going on a date with your client.  
• Sex isn't your job anymore; you feel emotionally satisfied after having sex with the person.  
• You are willing to bypass some of your rules for him or her. 
• You often wait for a message or call from the client, etc. 

Make Sure the Feelings Are Mutual 

Once you figured out that your feelings for your client are genuine, check whether your client feels the same for you or not. If your feelings aren't being reciprocated in the same way, this will create unnecessary tension between you and your client. Worst, you might lose a good-paying client. 

This is also applicable to clients. If your client is falling for you and you aren't, in this case, you need to clarify your feelings to your client beforehand. And, if they don't understand, it is better to cut loose such a client to avoid unnecessary drama. 

However, if both your and your client's feelings are mutual, there's nothing wrong with dating. You'll easily notice if he has feelings for you by observing small things in your client's behaviour like:

• Your client is always gentle with you while having sex. 
• He often considers your preferences before ordering food or selecting a restaurant for an outcall date. 
• He shows interest in your likes and dislikes. 
• Shares personal details with you, etc.

Make Sure to Check Your Client's Relationship Status 

Yes, girls, it is very important to check your client's relationship status before dating them. If your client is already married or in a committed relationship, dating them isn't right for you. Even if your client says that he will leave his current partner for you, never trust him. 

You see, if the person isn't already loyal to their current partner, how will you know that they will be loyal to you? Plus, as you already know, once a cheater is always a cheater. So, dating your married client is like calling unnecessary jealousy and drama in your life. 

If your client is single and reciprocates romantic feelings for you, only then consider dating him. 

Make Sure Your Client is Alright with Your Profession

When a client shifts to a boyfriend or girlfriend category, this will entirely change your relationship dynamics. You no longer get paid to go out on a date with your client, and you aren't pretending anymore to please him and vice versa. 

While dating, many things will come into focus which you and your ex-client/new boyfriend have never discussed before, like your profession. Yep, you both met because of your profession, but once you start dating, people get jealous in relationships, which will make things harder for you. 

You need to clearly tell your client that you will be working while dating them. Also, you should set some relationship boundaries at the beginning of your relationship like:

• Your new partner will not interfere with your career. 
• Set financial boundaries.  
• Define what you like and don't like about sex. 
• Tell what type of emotional support you want from your partner and so on. 

If you observe that your client is no longer happy with your career after becoming your partner or is unnecessarily criticizing your profession, this relationship will not work. So, it's better you end it on a healthy note. 

Similarly, clients should keep in mind that they are dating an escort. She will go out on a date, outdoor trips, and even have sex with other people. So, if they aren't comfortable with this, they better not date an escort. 

Make Sure It Isn't Just a Honeymoon Phase Hangover

When you are on an exotic trip with your handsome client away from reality, it's common to feel attracted to each other. Now, you both are attractive people in romantic settings, so it's natural to fall in love. 

However, your real relationship is tested when you are back to your daily routine. When you get busy with your other clients and your client gets busy with his life, you don't have too much time for one another. Unless you've had the talk right from the start and he's OK with it, your client who is now your partner will undoubtedly get jealous because you're spending so much time with your other clients.

Therefore, don't date your client because you had a great time with him on the Europe trip. Date your client because you feel a real connection with him. 

Make Sure it's Not About Sex

Sometimes, you can confuse great sex with romantic feelings. If you and your client indulge in extreme BDSM practice, you already have the same sexual preferences. After playing an intense pornstar scene with your client, it's common to feel vulnerable and physically attached to him or her. 

But it's all oxytocin — a hormone that is released when you orgasm or feel happy. This hormone helps to relax your muscles and mind, which you can confuse with romantic feelings. That's the main reason why your clients often tell you “I love you” after having mind-blowing sex. 

So, girls, when you can't distinguish whether it's love or lust that you are feeling for your client, the best thing to do is to take a break for some time. Don't book that client for a few days and go out with your other clients. If you don't miss your client except physically, it means you just like having sex with him. So, no need to think about dating the client. 

Make Sure You Want the Same Things in the Relationship 

This goes for all relationships. Ensure that you both want the same things. For instance, if your career is the number one priority for you right now and you want to have a casual relationship, be honest about this and see if the other person wants the same thing. If he hopes for a serious relationship with marriage and kids in the picture while you want completely the opposite, then don't date the person. 

Always discuss your expectations from the relationship before you start dating and get serious. If you and your client both have the same expectations, you should definitely date your client. 

Make Sure You Have the Same Interests 

For a long-term relationship, it is important to share some similar interests with your clients. If you and your client can't find a single common topic to talk about on a date, there's no purpose in pursuing the relationship further. That's because once the honeymoon phase is over, what will you do then?

Should I Date My Clients? 

The answer to this still really depends on your situation, but generally speaking, yes, there's nothing wrong with dating your client. In fact, you might find many stories where escorts and clients get married and have a blissful relationship. 

However, the condition here is that you and your client are genuinely into one another. If you just have an infatuation with your new client, it will pass with time. Similarly, regular clients also start developing feelings for their escorts as they now feel comfortable in their company. But that's not the right reason to date someone. 

If you and your client are physically, mentally, and emotionally compatible with one another, only then do you date your client. Otherwise, you will unnecessarily complicate a relationship with your good-paying client. 

We hope we've helped you with your dilemma about dating clients. However, if you have any more doubts, you can refer to other blogs on the Escort Rankings blog.